“A single rose can be my garden … a single friend, my world”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Life is a paradise for those who love many things with a passion.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Don’t hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Time has no meaning in itself unless we choose to give it significance”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
The Beginning
Born into a family of Italian immigrants in 1924, Leonardo, or Leo to those closest to him, Buscaglia spent much of his younger years in Italy – despite being born in Los Angeles.
A charmer from the off, his family remember him as being a confident child, who knew exactly what to say to get what he wanted. A popular child, his return to the United States as he hit his teens finally saw Buscaglia receive regular, stable education.
Buscaglia was something of a star pupil, although his charm often earned him just as much as the ability he applied to his school work.
Buscaglia signed up for the Navy on leaving school, Leo Buscaglia quotations reveal this was one of the most influential periods of his life.
On leaving the army following World War Two service, Buscaglia enrolled in the University of Southern California where he went to earn an impressive three degrees over a 13-year old time period, a BA, MA and a pHD. Buscaglia joined the faculty of the University where he studied and soon made a name for himself among students.
Leo Buscaglia quotes his non-credit course “Love 1A” as the main reason for his popularity. A course which was to earn him a nickname that would stick with him through his entire career – Doctor Love.
His genuine love and compassion for people clearly shines through all of Leo Buscaglia’s quotes, and it was this that was to make him one of the most popular motivational speakers in the world.
“Love is life and if you miss love, you miss life”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“It’s not enough to have lived. We should be determined to live for something. May I suggest that it be creating joy for others, sharing what we have for the betterment of personkind, bringing hope to the lost and love to the lonely.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Only when we give joyfully, without hesitation or thought of gain, can we truly know what love means.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“To love others you must first love yourself.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Relish love in your old age! Aged love is like aged wine; it becomes more satisfying, more refreshing, more valuable, more appreciated and more intoxicating!”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Most of us remain strangers to ourselves, hiding who we are, and ask other strangers, hiding who they are, to love us.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“You can only give away what you have … If you have love, you can give it. If you don’t have it, you don’t have it to give.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
Career and Achievements
Leo Buscaglia quotes the death of a student as being the real reason behind his Love 1A class.
The student, who committed suicide on campus, had a profound effect on Buscaglia, who became determined to teach people how we had become a “disconnected” nation.
Leo Buscaglia quotations from the time highlight how strongly he felt about getting the message, that people loving each other doesn’t cost anything.
Buscaglia pushed people to understand that the lack of tolerance between individuals could well lead to some feeling isolated. Not everyone had a family support system or friends they knew would be there for them. His course really took off and actually became the basis of his first book, which had the simple yet wholly relevant title – LOVE.
His brilliant storytelling skills were only seconded to his dynamic public speaking skills, something which was soon picked up on by the Public Broadcasting System (PBS). Leo Buscaglia refers to the 1980s as being the highlight of his life. This may well have been down to the fact PBS were regularly broadcasting televised version of his talks – all of which were a runaway success.
“It is paradoxical that many educators and parents still differentiate between a time for learning and a time for play without seeing the vital connection between them.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“Those who think they know it all have no way of finding out they don’t …”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“Change is the end result of all true learning.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
In fact, even today Leo Buscaglia speeches are used by the channel, especially during times of fund raising.
In total, Buscaglia wrote eight books – all of which became national best sellers. In fact, at one point the New York Times Best Sellers list contained five books by Buscaglia. Read more about his books here on this page.
Motivational quotes by Leo Buscaglia are still used today and Leo Buscaglia quotes are often used to help people try and understand the meaning of life and what it means to them.
Buscaglia’s books are still among the most popular in that genre and despite his death nearly 15-years ago, all eight books remain the same – none have been updated or extended by other professionals. This is something of an achievement in itself.
“The most unfortunate thing that happens to a person who fears failure is that he limits himself by becoming afraid to try anything new.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“The hardest battle you are ever going to have to fight is the battle to be just you.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“If you don’t like the scene you’re in, if you’re unhappy, if you’re lonely, if you don’t feel that things are happening, change your scene. Paint a new backdrop.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“Every moment spent in unhappiness is a moment of happiness lost.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
“… the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
~ Leo Buscaglia. ~
Controversy and Critics
As with most motivational speakers, Buscaglia received his fair share of criticism.
However, this seemed to concentrate on his writing ability, rather than the fact he was an advocate for love and life. Leo Buscaglia quotes addressed his critics directly by saying “Never idolize others. They will never live up to your expectations”.
To be fair to Buscaglia, he has always been honest, both in his books and by way of his speeches, that his only goal in life is to help people understand how much impact they have on other people. How much how they act can affect another person negatively and how easy it was to love rather than hate.
Of course, there are bound to be a select group of people who see Leo Buscaglia quotes as being unrealistic or fanciful. However, anyone who has taken the time to watch one of his speeches or read one of his books will know, Buscaglia means business.
Today motivational quotes from Leo Buscaglia are used in the very University that helped make him who he was. Leo Buscaglia quotes his editors as being some of the most important people in his life. While he was gifted in the ability of story telling, the mechanics of the language were never his strong point, which meant his raw work was heavily edited to make it publishable.
“Don’t smother each other. No one can grow in the shade.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“When we cling to pain, we end up punishing ourselves.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Only the weak are cruel. Gentleness can only be expected from the strong.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, ‘No, I won’t do it, I won’t behave his way anymore. I’m lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving,’ and then you do it.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“It is up to us to diligently discover new solutions and learn new patterns of relating, ways more conducive to growth, peace, hope and loving coexistence. Anything that is learned can be unlearned and relearned. In this process called change lies our real hope.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
The End
Leo Buscaglia died in Nevada at the age of 74-years. Today his legacy lives on, as he has become an idol to modern motivational speakers of the day.
Leo Buscaglia quotes commonly make up the motivational, inspirational and even spiritual speeches of others. His work continues to be popular, with his self-help and motivational books printed in over 20 different languages.
PBS regularly broadcast Buscaglia’s most famous speeches and Leo Buscaglia quotes.
Had he been alive today, Buscaglia would have been very impressed with his latest accolade, a guest appearance on “The Simpsons”.
“What we need to know about loving is no great mystery. We all know what constitutes loving behavior; we need but act upon it, not continually question it. Over-analysis often confuses the issue and in the end brings us no closer to insight. We sometimes become too busy classifying, separating, and examining, to remember that love is easy. It’s we who make it complicated.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Life lived for tomorrow, will always be a day away from being realised”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to choose life.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“Live now. When you are eating, eat. When you are loving, love. when you are talking with someone, talk. When you are looking at a flower, look. Catch the beauty of the moment!”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
“A life lived in love will never be dull.”
~ Leo Buscaglia ~
Visit the page about Leo Buscaglia’s books, or go directly to the main page for all the good quotes.
“Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
The Beginning
Born in 1883, Kahlil Gibran quotes hold as much meaning and sentiment now, as they did through his entire forty-eight year lifetime.
Born in Lebanon to an extremely poor family, Gibran received nothing in the way of a formal education during his early years. Gibran names the importance of his family’s priests, who, he quotes as “having an exceptional influence” on him.
These same priests taught a young Gibran everything he wanted to know about the bible, as well as the Syriac and Arabic languages.
Gibran’s father, who had once been well thought of in the field of apothecary, was jailed in 1891 for embezzlement after getting into trouble with gambling debts. It is this event, Kahlil Gibran quotes as being the catalyst for his mother’s decision to move herself and her children to America.
The move took place, despite Gibran’s father’s release from prison just before and the family settled in a Lebanese-Syrian-American community in Boston. Despite being placed in “special” education, a programme designed for immigrants who had had little to no previous education, Gibran was keen to learn.
As well as attending class, he enrolled himself in art school off his own back.
Kahlil Gibran says what happened next was a huge turning point in his life and one that was to design the course he would eventually take.
Gibran met Boston publisher, artist and photographer Fred Holland Day. A pleasant,affable man, he encouraged Gibran to be creative and was particularly supportive of his art. Quotes by Kahlil Gibran from around that time suggest Holland Day was responsible for Gibran’s first artwork sales.
His mother was still a huge influence on his life, and when she decided her children needed to be more involved with their own culture he gladly followed the family back to Lebanon. Over the passing years, Gibran attended a prep school and a well-to-do higher education institute in Beirut. As well as being something of a poet, Gibran loved to write and was heavily involved in the student-produced literary magazine at the institute.
Several Kahlil Gibran quotes indicate he had always wanted to return to America, although his return in 1902 was believed to be because his sister, brother and mother all died within a relatively short time of each other. Boston offered a familiar comfort for Gibran and his one remaining sister, so they returned – for what would be a very different second chance.
“Doubt is a pain too lonely to realize that faith is his twin brother”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Love and Doubt are not on speaking terms”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“You cannot laugh and be unkind at the same time”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“When you reach the end of what you should know, you will be at the beginning of what you should sense.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Your daily life is your temple and your religion.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“The appearance of things changes according to the emotions; and thus we see magic and beauty in them, while the magic and beauty are really in ourselves.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“One’s own religion is after all a matter between oneself and one’s Maker and no one else’s.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
Career and Achievements
Many quotations by Kahlil Gibran concentrate on the importance of having faith, even when you really doubt yourself or your ability.
This is possibly because he struggled to have faith in his own ability, especially when it came to his art. Despite being an accomplished artist in watercolor and drawing – Gibran had studied at one of the most prestigious art colleges in Paris. He still could not accept he was exceptionally good at what he did.
His first exhibition took place in 1904 and was a resounding success. It was also around about this time that he found an editor and his writing was also recognised in its own right. Quotations by Kahlil Gibran recognised the huge influence of friends, Mary Elisabeth Haskell and Youssef Howayek had on his success.
Kahlil Gibran quotes and early writings were all written in Arabic, in fact it wasn’t until 1918 that his writing appeared in English for the first time. One of Gibran’s most famous pieces of work is a collection of parables called “The Madman“.
Kahlil Gibran never strayed too far from his first love, poetry and many of his pieces are responsible for some of the more spiritual quotes attributed to Gibran. Gibran was a huge part of the New York Pen League, a group designed essentially for immigrant poets.
You can read more about Kahlil Gibran and his books here.
“Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Trust in dreams, for in them is the hidden gate to eternity.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does not laugh and the greatness which does not bow before children.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“They deem me mad because I will not sell my days for gold; and I deem them mad because they think my days have a price.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the greatest intention.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“To belittle, you have to be little.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
Critics and Controversy
As far as is known, Kahlil Gibran had no critics and if he did, they were almost certainly not considered important enough to note.
In fact, Kahlil Gibran was extremely well thought of and virtually everyone who spent time in his presence agreed he was a warm, pleasant and talented individual.
Kahlil Gibran quotes his life as being a relatively happy one, although he is quick to point out he had more opportunity come his way then most. Gibran was not a controversial figure and quotations by Kahlil Gibran were not designed to stir up controversy or debate.
Yet, after he died, he did manage to cause something of a controversy when it was revealed that his life-long friend Mary Elizabeth Haskell was actually his lover. Unable to reveal the truth to her conservative family, Haskell is believed to have turned down at least two marriage proposals from Gibran.
Only a select few people knew of the pair’s love and, once the information was made public knowledge, they were described as a loving couple who only had eyes for each other. Many of Gibran’s most inspiring quotes were no doubt influenced by the fact he could not be open about how he felt about such an important person.
“Beauty is eternity, gazing at itself in the mirror”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Trees are poems that the earth writes upon the sky.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Life without liberty is like a body without spirit.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you can not bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond that pain.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“You have been told that, even like a chain, you are as weak as your weakest link. This is but half the truth. You are also as strong as your strongest link. To measure you by your smallest deed is to reckon the power of ocean by the frailty of its foam. To judge you by your failures is to cast blame upon the seasons for their inconstancy.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself … You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
The End
Kahlil Gibran died from tuberculosis in 1931, aged just 48-years of age.
Gibran had informed Mary Haskell and his sister that in the event of his death, he wished to be buried in Lebanon. This wish was granted when Haskell purchased the Mar Sarkis Monastery – where Gibran was laid to rest. There is a famous Kahlil Gibran quote etched into the stone around the entrance to the monastery – it reads:
“a word I want to see written on my grave: I am alive like you and I am standing beside you. Close your eyes, look around and you will see me.”
Gibran’s work is now more popular than ever, especially his artwork,which has been used as cover work from everything from children’s books to personal development guides.
Having willed everything he owned to Mary Haskell, she was shocked to find a vast amount of letters between the pair – letters that spanned two decades. Before her death in 1962, she donated them to the University of North Carolina and excerpts of the letters were subsequently printed in a book called “Beloved Prophet”.
Kahlil Gibran quotes are now commonly used in church sermons and educational lessons across the world. Many of the most popular self help quotes and personal development quotes can also be attributed to Gibran.
“I am not a politician, nor do I wish to become one”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
“Love is the only freedom in the world because it so elevates the spirit that the laws of humanity and the phenomena of nature do not alter its course.”
~ Kahlil Gibran ~
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