• Eating a girl out tips a.k.a. how to perform
cunnilingus!
• Sober & powerful self improvement article on how to lick
pussy.
• Learn about cunnilingus techniques and eating pussy out.
• Sexual empowerment; mostly for men, but women can peek,
too.
Eating a Girl Out Tips That Will Make Your Mouth Water
This sexual self improvement article is mostly for men, although
bisexual and lesbian women may find a tip or two as well, and
heterosexual women might have fun peeking in, too, of course.
I’m sometimes asked about ‘eating a girl out tips’ a.k.a. how to
lick pussy – the two common (some might even say vulgar) ways of
referring to how to perform cunnilingus (a.k.a. ‘going down on
her’).
So, let’s face it, men – many of you want to know how to perform
cunnilingus in ways that will pleasure your woman to death (the
small death of orgasm, at least). And it is a really good idea,
too. Certainly, cunnilingus is one of my personal favorites. To
be blunt, I love pussy! 🙂
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Repulsion Means Inhibitions – and Those You Don’t Need!
Note: Some people are put off by the idea of oral sex. It that
is you, you may consider reading the self help article
lose your inhibitions first. And then, hopefully, by going
over this little ‘how to perform cunnilingus guide’ you get a
chance to see that it’s just another beautiful, sensual, loving
act and nothing to be repulsed by or ashamed of.
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
The Benefits of Learning How to Perform Cunnilingus
When you have mastered some good eating a girl out tips, you’ll
be able to pleasure your woman like never before. This will
bring you more intimately close together … and it will allow
you, as a man, to sustain sex even longer.
It stands to reason that if you apply some eating a girl out
tips before you actually enter her for intercourse, her pleasure
will last longer and be heightened – and, by extension, so will
yours. Furthermore she will already be ‘primed and ready’,
aroused and dripping wet for you.
There are many, many diversified methods for how to perform
cunnilingus. Let’s look at some of these eating a girl out tips,
teach you how to lick pussy and get you going down the erotic
road that you want to be riding.
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
How I’m Gonna Do It – Share Some Eating Pussy Out Tips With
You
So, here’s how I will do it: First, I will present you with some
general eating a girl out advice and then I will give you a set
of 10 nice, concrete and practical ‘how to lick pussy’ tips.
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy
Licking Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
The Sensitive Vagina Takes a Licking
Please note, that in terms of total area of nerve endings, the
vagina is even more sensitive than the penis. This means for you
that part of understanding how to perform cunnilingus is
ensuring that you always remain gentle. In some cases extremely
gentle.
The clitoris, which sits a few centimetres above the vaginal
opening (at the top of the slit, so to speak) is particularly
sensitive – the amount of nerves that end in the clitoris is
extreme. Please remember this as you play around with your
tongue.
That being said, all women are different, and some like it
rough. All else being equal most women prefer gentleness, but do
talk about it. Communication makes everything so much easier!
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy
Licking Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Cleanliness Is Next to Godliness – and The Anus Is Next to
the Vagina
The vagina is a clever system that is able to clean itself, by
and large. The anus not so much. Simply applying water before
having sex should be enough for the vagina, but probably not for
the anus. Gentle soaps especially designed for the female
genitalia do exist and can be applied. Your woman probably knows
and does this. If not, just tell her or maybe have a shower
together where you play around while washing both of you ‘down
there’.
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy
Licking Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Trimming the Bush – or Not
Some folks, both men and women, love a great natural bush of
pubic hair, others prefer a trimmed one, and yet others prefer
the naked look and feel of a shaved pussy. Logic dictates that,
generally speaking, a trimmed or shaved pussy is more sensitive
than a bushy one. All up to you, lovers! 🙂
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy
Licking Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Wake Up and Smell the Coffee, Sorry … Pussy Juice (and
Taste It, Too)
As you are no doubt aware, women have a monthly cycle. The
hormones of the female body change all during this cycle, and
therefore the smell and taste of your woman’s vagina will
change, too. This is natural.
The smell and taste of her pussy also vary according to what
your woman eats. If she eats a lot of meat her smell and taste
will be more pungent. If she is vegetarian, or mostly so, her
smell and taste will be more, well, fruity. Smoking or not
smoking has an influence, too.
All this may sound weird, but it is true. It is true for men,
too, by the way, and it becomes especially obvious if you taste
the male semen.
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy
Licking Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
We Brake for Nothing!
Menstruation, the Monthly Female Period, Is No Hindrance
Furthermore, for younger women (before the menopause) the
monthly cycle entails ‘her period’, i.e. a few days of bleeding
from her vaginal opening. This, too, is quite natural and it
certainly does not need to be a hindrance to sex – neither
sexual intercourse nor oral sex. Not unless one of you wants it
to be.
Extra precautions by way of extra cleanliness, perhaps the
temporary use of a tampon before oral sex and placing some
towels on the bed before intercourse during the to soak up
possible blood leaking out will have you going at it like
rabbits if you want.
An extra spice for you, the man, during intercourse when the
woman has her period, may be the fact that the woman’s vagina
will appear to have a slightly elevated temperature, which can
feel pretty good on your penis.
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy Licking
Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
A Performance Note Regarding These Eating a Girl Out Tips
If a girl is healthy and clean, then her vagina’s look, smell
and taste is very sexually arousing to most men.
However, some guys do not much care for the female scent ‘down
there’, even if she is healthy and clean. If this is so for you,
you might need some coaching to
lose your inhibitions, or, you could consider using some
‘sex jelly’ (or similar) that has a good taste and smell on her
genitals: Just start out by spreading some of it all over and
very shallowly within her vagina.
Done right this can actually heighten her pleasure in addition
to making this loving act palatable for you. (If she knows the
exact reason why you’re spreading the jelly on, you might resort
to the ‘humor and sex’ advice that I’ve written of elsewhere!)
General Cunnilingus Advice – Eating Pussy Out & Pussy
Licking Tips:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Take the Scenic Route to Her Vagina
Sometimes it is a great idea to surprise your woman by
unexpectedly grabbing her, throwing her on the bed, pulling off
her clothes and just start working your tongue directly on her
private parts (friendly, forced cunnilingus). Surprises are one
of the spices of life, and this surprise technique may just make
it easier for her to surrender.
However, with most women most of the time, you will want to go
slow and work your way up to it – or down to it as the case may
be. Take the scenic route to her vagina, so to speak.
Also, as far as actual penetration (with your fingers or your
penis) goes, keep that off for an even longer time. She needs to
be ready for this. Though, for added pleasure, you can certainly
pretend – that is, tease her vaginal opening a bit every now and
then – without actually penetrating it.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 1 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
A Bouquet of Quivering Kisses
This one might seem weird at first, but it’s excellent for
starting in on cunnilingus and is thus one of the leading eating
a girl out tips and techniques you’ll ever find. Very simply you
gently pinch the woman’s labia together so that they mimic lips.
Then you start softly kissing those lips, just like you would
her other lips. (Always remember, guys, you have one mouth but a
woman has two.) You might even do some gentle ‘French kissing’
using your tongue while you are at it. Remember to take your
time (take a lot of time) and enjoy the experience.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 2 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Licking the Alphabet
You may find this idea amusing: To ensure nice variation in your
pussy licking you can simply let your tongue trace the letters
of the alphabet, one letter at a time, on her vagina. Or, you
can have fun spelling out sentences; ‘I love you so incredibly
much’ is a nice one.
Though this tongue spelling may sound kind of silly, it actually
does work, if you feel safe having a specific cunnilingus
technique to use. Try it out and see what you think.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 3 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
The Perfect Circle
Open her legs wide, lick her pussy a few times to make it wet
all over, and then wet and pout your lips, after which you let
your lips, chin and nose slowly circle all over her genitals.
For extra pleasure you can also use your entire face (provided
the area is wet enough for it).
Keep going in a circle, round and round, reversing the direction
every now and then, and sometimes sticking out your tongue for
extra spice and wetness. If you pass her clitoris along the way,
great. But don’t focus on it.
The great part of this cunnilingus technique is the totality of
it, both for you and your woman – which is also what repels a
few men and women about it. Some like it; some don’t.
(Important Note: You have to be VERY clean shaven for this so
that you don’t cause irritation to the woman’s private parts.
Even a bit of stubble will have the same effect as sand paper –
an effect you certainly don’t want!)
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 4 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
The Vaginal Cornucopia
(Fruits in the Vagina)
Now here’s a literal ‘eating a girl out’ tip!
Take a couple of grapes, strawberries, etc., remove any parts
that are sticking out, and clean the fruits thoroughly, using
soap and lots of water.
Then lick them to make them wet and playfully place them
shallowly within your woman’s vagina. You can do this slowly and
playfully, perhaps allowing them to pop out a few times, making
it a pleasure for her all by itself. Then, use your mouth and
tongue to remove the tasty, now warm fruit. Yummy!
Note: This is one of those cunnilingus
techniques that you will want to be very careful with. Don’t use
too much fruit and keep the placing of the fruit shallow! If you
use berries that are too small or jam the fruit inside her and
you can’t get it out again you better hope she is able to ‘push’
with her vagina (perhaps letting gravity help by sitting on the
toilet), or you could have one of the most embarrassing, and
bad, bedroom experiences of your life. It will be even worse for
her.
If your woman has built her vaginal muscles, e.g. using kegel
exercises, then she may be able to push the fruits out into your
mouth one at a time. You can use your mouth to put it back in a
few times before you eat it.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 5 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
I Got Rhythm – But I’m Unpredictable
Understanding how to perform cunnilingus means understanding how
to give a truly great tongue massage. And the way to do this,
besides adhering to gentleness (unless your woman specifies
something else), is to vary the speed with which your tongue
goes round and round, in and out or side to side.
Start slowly, then, without warning, quicken the pace; when
you’ve got her arching, squirming, and groaning, go slow again,
real slow. Then stop for a few seconds. Start again either quick
or slow.
Come up with lots of variations on this theme to keep her
uncertain what you’ll do next.
Being unpredictable, yet still tauntingly rythmic, is actually
one of the very best cunnilingus techniques around!
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 6 of the Cunnilingus Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Non-Stop Stopping
– Holding Your Wet Tongue Almost Completely Still on the
Clitoris
This may sound kind of boring, and not all women will appreciate
it, although those who do are likely to REALLY appreciate it – a
LOT.
The technique itself is as simple as it can be: Place your wet,
warm tongue on her clitoris – gently, very gently – and leave it
there. When you have stuck your tongue out the muscles inside
the tongue are likely to twitch a bit every now and then, and
this is almost all the movement you need.
In addition to your tongue muscles twitching, you might want to
twitch it voluntarily, just a tiny bit, every now and then, at
unpredictable intervals. That’s it. All you need beyond this is
patience.
You will need to retract and wet your tongue every now and then,
of course, but with this particular cunnilingus technique being
patient is of the essence. Both for you and for your woman.
To really enjoy this technique your woman needs to be able to
relax even more deeply than normal. Not all women are ready to
do this, but if your woman is, and you both have patience, she
may well end up getting the orgasm of her life.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 7 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
The Tongue Tornado
When you are alone try sticking out your tongue just a tiny bit,
then whip it from side to side, real quick, allowing it to
rapidly hit the sides of your mouth again and again.
How fast can you move your tongue from side to side? And how
long can you keep doing it?
The faster you can go and the longer you can do it, the better.
Doing this thing to your woman’s clitoris is the tongue tornado
(or one version of it).
This cunnilingus technique is sort of the opposite of the above
mentioned static technique, and just like with that one not all
women will appreciate this one. For some women the stimulation
might be way too much. For others, this might just be one of the
quickest ways ever to produce an orgasm!
One thing which you will quickly notice is that if you stick
your tongue too far out you will not be able to go as fast and
you will tire much more quickly. Another thing of note is that
practice makes the master. And you don’t need you woman to
practice. 🙂
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 8 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Her Anus Takes a Licking, Too
(Licking Her Anus)
Warning: to quite a few people this is somewhere in the kinky
end of the scale, and some folks might not be comfortable with
it at all. No real reason why they shouldn’t be, though, but you
do need to respect your partner’s boundaries.
Anyways, if she has cleaned her private parts using (a gentle
kind of) soap prior to you having oral sex, then there is no
reason why you – and she – should not enjoy the famous (or
infamous) anus lick.
The anus is actually a very sensitive part of the anatomy (for
both men and women), and licking the anus – preferably for an
extended period of time – can produce much pleasure, and yes,
even orgasm.
The only thing you need to be aware of, is that if you use your
tongue inside her anus (where it is likely to be somewhat less
clean), you should not immediately switch it to her vagina,
particularly the vicinity of her ‘pee hole’, because the
bacteria in the two areas don’t match and you might
inadvertently give her a very painful infection.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 9 of the Cunnilingus
Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Aahh, That Hit the Old Spot!
(G-Spot Stimulation)
Yes, the G-Spot does exist. And yes, some women do ejaculate
(a.k.a. have squirt orgasms) both with G-spot stimulation and
without it. And no, the female ejaculate is NOT pee! (More about
all that some other time).
To stimulate the G-spot you need to use something other than
your tongue, because the G-spot is located maybe 6 to 8
centimetres inside the vagina on the side facing towards her
belly button.
You can use a curved dildo, or, better, one or two of your
fingers to stimulate the G-spot. Using your fingers you insert
them palm up (your hand turned so that your knuckles face down
towards her perineum and anus), and then you alternately curve
and stretch your fingers, thus making a gentle ‘come here’
motion with your fingers.
How is this one of the ‘eating a girl out tips’? Because you can
combine it with any of the other tongue-to-vagina techniques you
know – thus producing an even better experience for your woman.
If this produces a ‘wet orgasm’ (squirt orgasm) in her, please
don’t be alarmed by the fluid – if your woman is healthy the
fluid will be sterile and if it pleases you to do so, you can
drink it. Otherwise just let it gush – or trickle – down along
your tongue. But please; don’t EXPECT your woman to produce a
squirt orgasm; some women just don’t.
Eating Pussy Out Tips – No. 10 of the Cunnilingus Techniques:
Eating a Girl Out Tips:
Hey, Woman: Take an Active Part in This Oral, Sexual
Adventure, Too
Women need to have some basic eating a girl out tips under their
hats, too. First off, you’ll want to keep yourself clean, but
this goes without saying. Generally speaking you want to keep
your legs spread nice and wide for your man, don’t be shy about
that (most men love and adore vaginas!).
Also, don’t be shy about telling him what you want him to do –
and when you present him with this, consider doing it in a
playful, humorous, and non-demanding way, flirting with him
while doing it.
Do you prefer gentle or hard? Do you want for him to move his
tongue in circles, up or down, in and out, or a combination? Do
you want him to suck on your clitoris? Do you want to ride his
face so that you can move more freely and he can hold your
buttocks while he licks you? The list of possibilities goes on
and on, which is why you may want to give your man some gentle
guidance.
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