It seems like Christmas just got wrapped up, and now it is already time to buy Valentine gifts for her.
As if finding the perfect present for the holidays wasn't
enough, now men are left to prove that they are indeed romantics
at heart. Who needs this kind of pressure, right?
There are some women who have given up on the whole romantic
holiday because their man has never found the right Valentines
Day gifts for her, and while these women may be cynical on the
outside, EVERY woman longs for a romantic night.
Just what this means for you and your partner may be very
different depending on the couple, but as men, you have to do
the work it takes to find the perfect gift.
Whether your woman is jaded about your ability to find her a
gift for Valentine, or has hopeful optimism in a new romance,
there is no end of ideas you can use to make this the best
Valentines Day ever, for both of you! Just read on.
By the way, also be sure to check out the final part of this
page that talks about
creative
ways to present your Valentines Day gifts for women.
Traditional Valentines Gifts Presented in Untraditional Ways
The traditional Valentine gifts for women include one of
those cute
Valentines Day cards, chocolates, roses and a romantic
dinner for two. While these are nice and definitely better than
nothing, they just aren't very creative. It is setting the bar
low for what your woman is likely to expect (or at least:
secretly desire).
If you want to go above and beyond the traditional Valentine
gifts for women, jump further down this page.
If you do want to go the traditional way with your Valentine
gifts for her, what you can do instead is to take these
traditional Valentines gifts and present them in an uncommon way
…
Sexy Valentines Presents for Her
Let's be honest: To many people Valentines gifts ultimately
imply sex. No shame in that, it's a natural part of romance and
love.
So, you can let your gifts lead up to the culmination with a
range of fun Valentine gift ideas. For instance:
In place of the box of candies from the local drug store,
think e.g. chocolate panties and bra painted on with edible
chocolate. Or maybe a full bodypaint? Yep, why not enjoy
painting your lover with exotic, edible paints. Either way, you
can finish by licking them off.
Romantic Valentine Day Flowers
Instead of simply buying roses, buy those Valentine Day
roses, but also have the florist give you a bag of fresh rose
petals to line the walkway to the bedroom. Have a few in the tub
and leave some on the covers of your bed, too.
Romantic Valentine Dinner
As for the nice dinner, well, who really wants to go to a
crowded restaurant on one of the busiest days of the year?
If you are unwilling or unable to secure reservations for a
private table at an exceptional restaurant, then consider making
dinner for your lover at home. So what if you're a lousy chef
and no good in the culinary arts!
Just hire a chef to prepare a meal you can bring home. Heck, if
you've got the money for it, hire the chef to come to your place
(or the place of your lover). How is that for special valentines
day gifts for her?!
Other than that, make sure your desert is exquisite (because
that's the last part of the meal), play soft music, have the
atmosphere (lighting) relaxed, and let it be an evening to enjoy
each other without distractions.
Candlelight and nice dishes always enhance the experience;
make sure to find the right place settings for your special
evening.
Also make it a point to wash the dishes afterwards (e.g. while
your lover follows the rose petals to the bathroom to soak and
relax while you do the dishes. There hardly a woman alive who
wouldn't love having her man spoil her by doing the dishes.
Unique Valentine Gifts: Overnight Trips
For the more adventurous romantic evening, consider taking
your girl for an overnight trip. There are many hotels and bed
and breakfasts that offer special deals on Valentine gifts
packages. Many even provide the champagne, the chocolate, and a
restaurant or room service. There are many who will even deliver
flowers during your stay.
Going to a new location where someone has done the legwork on
the romance package takes the stress off for you, while still
providing an amazing trip – and memory.
Pleasures of the Body
While on an overnight trip, you can opt to try spa services
for the two of you.
There are no Valentines day gifts for women that will please her
as much as getting a couple's massage, an invigorating facial,
and splurging on a manicure and pedicure.
You might even like being a suave gentleman with your girl
even more than you think – it is not unmanly to go and have the
spa workup.
You don't have to tell your friends afterwards, but hey, when
you experience the ultimate results of your creative Valentines
Day gift ideas you might not be able to keep from bragging.
Unique Valentine Gifts for Her: Go Large!
Being romantic implies that you give a gift that centers on
the other person's interest. If your woman has been eyeing a
large ticket item, now is the time to go for it.
It can be jewelry, electronics, or something suited to her
hobby.
If she is not into the exotic romantic stuff, getting Valentines
Day gifts for her that are extravagant and wonderful (and
completely not something she would want to spend the money on)
shows that she is so important that you want to lavish her with
something extravagant.
This idea works well for any woman, but particularly those
who have a hard time making a large purchase for themselves.
Treat her special, and she will treat you special too!
Personalized Valentine Day Gifts
Going the personalized route is always a good idea when
purchasing Valentines gifts. Personalized Valentines gifts are
so special because they let your beloved know that she is
important enough to be memorialized on a gift.
There is no end of ideas to the kinds of custom Valentine
presents for her you can get, and which she will surely
treasure.
Personalized Photo Gifts for Valentine
Use a photo from your relationship and have it enlarged on a
canvas print, placed on a personalized blanket, use it for a
pair of personalized coffee mugs, or even designed into a silly
set of dolls.
The intimacy that is implied with a personalized gift takes a
relationship to the next level.
Having a picture on something that is so much larger than life
gives it a permanency, and is fairly sure to get points with
your lady!
There are many online stores that offer unique personalized
Valentine gifts.
Everything from a book of reasons of WHY you love her, to unique
t-shirts, poems written with her name – there is something for
every woman in our cyber world.
A Personalized Jigsaw Puzzle
Presenting her with a personalized jigsaw puzzle (made from a
photo you provide) that you can work together is also another
neat way to both spend time together while commemorating a
memory.
A photo from a trip, or first date, or other romantic memory
you have, will be a treasure as well as a conversation piece
when company visits. You will be complimented on your Valentine
gift ideas as the newly completed puzzle (glued together after
completion) graces your wall as new artwork.
Or, if she's a bit on the kinky side, you might have the
puzzle made out of an intimate picture of you (or even of you
and her together). Whether you'd want THAT photo to grace your
wall is another question; but who knows, maybe the bedroom wall?
Make a
Wonderful Presentation of Your Valentine Gift
Once you have an idea for the Valentines gifts, half the
battle is over. But you don't want to simply hand her a package
and have her open it. Where is the fun an adventure in that?
Make it an event in order for her to receive her gifts. This is
where the fun comes in. Not only are you giving a gift, you are
creating a memory.
Scavenger hunts were always fun for kids, and you can make it
special for you as a couple as well. Have your lover start with
a clue, and once she finds the answer, have the next clue taped
to a small present. Lead up to the large present, while she
finds miniatures on her quest.
As an example, have your first note lead to a Hershey kiss
(funny shaped American brand chocolates in colorful foil
wrapping).
On the Hershey kiss, have another note that leads to a bottle of
wine. One the bottle of wine, she can get a clue that leads to,
say … a massage (by you or a pro). You get the picture. The
final, grand prize is up to you.
Themed Games
Themed games are always fun when presenting Valentine gifts for
her. Most men like straight up sex games (which you can buy
online), which is fine, but most women prefer a bit more romance
and sensuality to their Valentine games.
The Game of 'Five Senses'
One of the most romantic games uses a theme of the 'Five
Senses'. In the game, there are five booths set up. The guest of
honor has to play at each of the booths to get the gift for
each.
The Valentine Game of 'Five Senses': Taste
The taste booth can be a wine, beer or cheese tasting – or
whatever suits your fancy.
Blindfold your partner and have her experiment with the
different tastes and try to guess which is which.
Win or lose, present her with a gift that she can eat (this is
where the chocolate can come in – but you can use sweet fruit,
too, of course, or maybe even fruit dipped in chocolate;
anything that you know she really likes).
The Valentine Game of 'Five Senses': Hearing
The hearing game can involve recognizing a favorite song,
voices from the family or friends, or another similar activity.
The gift for this should reflect something she will listen to
(CD, a new instrument, etc.).
TThe Valentine Game of 'Five Senses': Smell
The sense of smell can play tricks on you when you have
Valentines gifts for her on the line.
You have to keep the gift centered on her interest, but perhaps
have her pick out different types of fruit or other foods,
different spices, or even different brands of deodorant or
perfume.
It can be as serious or as silly as you want, with the gift
being what she smelled, or something that is centered on her
favorite smell. (Think perfume here, boys – it is a classic).
The Valentine Game of 'Five Senses': Sight
They say love makes you blind. Have your partner try to
recognize photos of various body parts of you taken at VERY
close range.
You can also take two pictures of the same thing; see if she can
recognize your ear versus your friend's, your belly button, etc.
This can get quite erotic if you are feeling brave, or you can
leave it as simple as you want. Does she really recognize whose
lips she kisses every day?
The Valentine Game of 'Five Senses': Touch
The touch booth has no limit of ideas. Think of all the
things you can have her feel, and put them in a box. br />
The gift can reflect something she can feel… a soft
blanket, a new comforter, whatever she enjoys. It could also
involve recognizing what she is being touched with (say, a
feather, a paint brush, a finger, a piece of fruit or even an
ice cube).
As you can probably imagine, the Valentine Game of 'Five
Senses' can be both wonderful fun and intensely erotic. And
truth be told, it's one of those cheap Valentines ideas / cheap
Valentines Day gifts that almost everyone can afford. As
Valentine Gifts for Her go, it's one of the best.
The Conclusion
Yes, yes, we know what the typical conclusion to Valentine's
Day is: Bedtime! But why do it in bed?
Why not reach the climax of a wonderful Valentine's Day
somewhere unusual? In the shower, on the kitchen table, in the
living room, or (if it's not too cold where you live) perhaps
even in the garden?
Keep in mind, though, that your woman should find it romantic
and/or erotic. The big soft bed (with the rose petals) just
might be the place after all.
So, here's the conclusion: You don't have to dread buying
those Valentines gifts for women; instead, make Valentines Day
gifts for her an adventure. Make it new and surprising each
year, or create a new tradition that you can vary and celebrate
over and over. Make it a fun and playful experience, with all
your creativity and playfulness hard at work.
You aren't on the line to create the most romantic evening
ever (okay, so maybe you really are) – but it isn't that hard to
make it a night she is sure to remember.
Start planning right away so you can have all your pieces in
place. With just the right planning, your gift is sure to be
well received, from a simple gift to an elaborate proposal.
Think about what SHE likes, and center her gifts on her
personality. That will ensure that you win every time.
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